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It’s a term that’s been thrown around a lot in the last few years, but the Bank of Mum and Dad was around long before the recent surges in Australian property prices. If you’re trying to get onto the property ladder, you might be wondering – do I need help from my parents to get there?

With some fearing that the Bank of Mum and Dad is fostering an existing wealth gap, it may seem like buying a property will remain out of reach without your parent’s assistance. We explain what the Bank of Mum and Dad is and how much of Australian lending it makes up. We also look at how lenders view parental contributions in a home loan application and if they’re necessary to buy a home.

What is the Bank of Mum and Dad?

The Bank of Mum and Dad refers to direct or indirect financial help given to children, usually first time buyers, by their parents to help them purchase a house. It’s a colloquial term, but it’s become a popular way to refer to parental financial help in relation to buying homes.

This help can take the form of:

  • Gifting money that covers the deposit, part of the loan or all of the loan
  • Acting as a guarantor on a child’s loan
  • Allowing adult children to move back home or stay at home longer to help save money and avoid paying rent
  • Helping with living expenses and bills
  • Leaving an inheritance (either a home or money which is then used to purchase a home).

How much does the Bank of Mum and Dad contribute to first home buyers in Australia?

It’s hard to say exactly, recent analysis has suggested that parental contributions are now averaging more than $89,000 each, which is a 20% increase over the last 12 months.

The total contribution from the Bank of Mum and Dad is around $34 billion in loans, making it the ninth largest source of residential mortgage lending in Australia.

However, the Productivity Commission doesn’t believe parents are necessarily gifting their children large sums of money to help them get into the housing market. Rather, the help is in smaller and more indirect amounts, making house price growth a likely cause of growing wealth inequality.

Still, for first home buyers looking to get into a property market where house prices are at record highs, the prospect of doing so without help can be daunting.

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How do home loan lenders view financial gifts?

Considering parental contributions form a substantial amount of home loan lending in Australia, how does this fly with lenders? If you’ve been gifted money from your parents to fully or partially pay for your deposit, you’ll have to provide evidence to your lender that the money does not need to be repaid. This can be in the form of a gift letter signed by your parents.

Genuine savings

It’s important to note that lenders don’t usually consider gifted funds as evidence of genuine savings. Genuine savings are savings a borrower has accrued over time (usually at least three months). Lenders require proof of this because it shows you can responsibly manage your finances. Definitions of genuine savings can vary by lender, but generally include:

  • Money held or saved up over at least three months
  • Managed funds and shares you have held for at least three months
  • Term deposits held for at least three months
  • First Home Super Saver Scheme contributions
  • Equity held in an existing property
  • Profits from the sale of a property.

This isn’t to say you can’t get a loan with gifted money from your parents – it just means you’ll need evidence of at least some money you’ve saved up over time. Some lenders even count rent as genuine savings, because it can show you have capacity to repay a loan.

Guarantor loans

Because a guarantee is a binding contract, it is not considered a financial gift even though the guarantee covers the borrower’s deposit. But, lenders will still thoroughly assess all aspects of both the borrower and the guarantor’s financial situation. Lenders will make sure:

  • Both the borrower and the guarantor have good credit scores
  • The borrower has a stable job with consistent income
  • The borrower can repay the loan with their own income
  • The guarantor has a strong equity position.

This way, lenders can feel more confident the borrower will pay off the entirety of the loan even though they haven’t paid for their deposit with genuine savings.

Are parental contributions necessary to buy a home?

In short, no. However, it’s understandable that more borrowers are turning to parental help to get their foot on the property ladder. This is largely due to how difficult it has become to save for a home amid massive house price growth.

But, it’s certainly possible to get into home ownership without the Bank of Mum and Dad. Here are some tips for aspiring homeowners who don’t have parental contributions to help with the purchase of a home.

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Consider rentvesting

If house prices in the area you want to buy in are a bit out of reach, rentvesting could be a solution. Rentvesting is when you purchase an investment property in an area you can afford and continue renting in the spot you prefer to live in.

While it does still require an initial deposit, a smart investment can generate rental income and help you build up your equity. This makes purchasing another property in a more ideal location easier down the track.

Take advantage of government schemes

If you’re eligible, government schemes for first home buyers can save you money when it’s time to buy a house. Many are for first home buyers specifically, like the First Home Owner Grant and the First Home Super Saver Scheme. You might also be eligible for stamp duty concessions.

Search for lenders who offer low deposit home loans

If you’re struggling to save up a large deposit, you might still be able to get a home loan with certain lenders. Some lenders offer home loans for borrowers with deposits as little as 5%, so be sure to consider all your options.

Is it worth paying LMI now or waiting to buy?

As a general rule, borrowers with a deposit of 20% or more won’t have to pay Lenders Mortgage Insurance (LMI). Borrowers with a deposit of less than 20% typically have to pay LMI, which is a fee that covers the lender in the event you default on your home loan.

Many borrowers will wait and save up a bigger deposit, but this isn’t ideal for everyone. It could be worth weighing up the cost of LMI versus the cost of waiting to get onto the property ladder and potentially paying more for a house.

Grow your deposit

This one might be self-explanatory, but saving up as much as you can to put towards your deposit can be worth the wait. Although it means you might have to delay purchasing your dream property, it also means that you won’t have to pay LMI and can demonstrate excellent saving habits to your lender.

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The information in this post is general in nature and should not be considered personal or financial advice. You should always seek professional advice or assistance before making any financial decisions.

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